just wanna share what I read :)

hello readers.. Iwani is here
again.. well, straight to the topic..
I currently reading a book from Gary Chapman. his book title's is The Five Love Languages. here are some summary from the book I read.. enjoy. ;)

[1] Words of Affirmation ==> this is when you say how nice your couple looks, or how great the dinner tasted. these words will also build your mate's self image and confidence..

[2] Quality Time ==> some couples believe that being together, doing things together and focusing in on one another is the best way to show love. if this is your partner's love language, turn off the TV now and then and give one another some undivided attention.

[3] Gifts ==> it is universal in human cultures to give gifts. they don't have to be expensive to send a powerful message of love. couples who forget a birthday or anniversary or who never give gifts to someone who truly enjoys gift giving will find themselves with a couple who feels neglected and unloved.

[4] Acts of Service ==> discovering how you can best do something for your couple will require time and creativity. these acts of service like vacuuming, planting a garden, etc., need to be done with joy in order to be perceived as a gift of love.

[5] Physical Touch ==> sometimes just stroking your couple's back holding hands, or a peck on the cheek will fulfill this need.

simple? keep reading..

how to know your own love language? the answer is simple, just ask yourself with this questions ;
- how do I express love to others?
- what do I complain about the most?
- what do I request most often?

connecting in your partner's love language probably won't be natural for you. Gary Chapman says, "we're not talking comfort. we're talking love. love is something we do for someone else. so often couples love one another but they aren't connecting. they are sincere, but sincerity isn't enough."

in this book Gary Chapman recommends that we have a "Tank Check" 3 nights a week for 3 weeks. ask one another "how is your love tank tonight?" if, on a scale from zero to ten, it is less than 10, then ask your partner "what can I do to help fill it?"

so I hope you guys enjoy reading it.. you don't get enough? I suggest you to find that book :D adios!

p.s ; sayang!! you should read this book after me ;) I love you..

Tangle Up In You by Staind

You're my world, the shelter from the rain
You're the pills that take away my pain
You're the light that helps me find my way
You're the words when I have nothing to say

And in this world where nothing else is true
Here I am still tangled up in you
I'm still tangled up in you
Still tangled up in you

You're the fire that warms me when I'm cold
You're the hand I have to hold as I grow old
You're the shore when I am lost at sea
You're only thing that I like about me

And in this world where nothing else is true
Here I am still tangled up in you
I'm still tangled up in you
How long has it been since this storyline began
And I hope it never ends and goes like this forever

In this world where nothing else is true
Here I am still tangled up in you, tangled up in you
I'm still tangled up in you
Still tangled up in you

Serpentine by Reamonn

Lost on a road going nowhere
Trying to take on the world
Searching for some one who understands
Sweet girl, sweet girl
Walking through fields of fire Hopelessly reaching for the skies Watching the flames growing higher Tonight

And she danced like serpentine
She's my burning desire
She mystifies
Her loves sets me on fire
Oh oh oh,
Oh oh oh oh oh.

Caught in a fear of embracing
Waiting for the beauty to arrive
All of the fears that you're facing Sweet child sweet child
No one can stop us from reaching Who says the Innocent survive
One more step into nowhere goodbye

She danced like serpentine

She's my burning desire
She's mystifies
Her loves lifting me higher than high

No one can stand in our way
Nothing can stop us on this day
I've never felt like this way

Can't let you slip away
Oh, oh
Can't let you slip away
Oh, oh
Can't let you slip away
Oh, oh

She danced like serpentine
She's my only desire
She mystifies
Her loves taking
Me higher

the value of a smile at Christmas.

It costs nothing, but creates much.
It enriches those who receive, without impoverishing those who give.
It happens in a flash and the memory of it sometimes lasts forever.
None are so rich they can get along without it, and none so poor but are richer for its benefits.
It creates happiness in the home, fosters good will in a business, and is the countersign of friends.
It is rest to the weary, daylight to the discouraged, sunshine to the sad, and Nature's best antidote for trouble.
Yet it cannot be bought, begged, borrowed, or stolen, for it is something that is no earthly good to anybody till it is given away.
And if in the last-minute rush of Christmas buying some of our salespeople should be too tired to give you a smile, may we ask you to leave one of yours ?
For nobody needs a smile so much as those who have none left to give !

Fix You - Coldplay

When you try your best but you don't succeed
When you get what you want but not what you need

When you feel so tired but you can't sleep
Stuck in reverse
And the tears come streaming down your face

When you lose something you can't replace
When you love someone but it goes to waste

Could it be worse?
Lights will guide you home
And ignite your bones
And I will try to fix you

And high up above or down below
When you're too in love to let it go
But if you never try you'll never know
Just what you're worth

Lights will guide you home
And ignite your bones
And I will try to fix you
Tears stream down your face
When you lose something you cannot replace

Tears stream down your face
And I
Tears stream down your face
I promise you I will learn from my mistakes

Tears stream down your face
And I
Lights will guide you home
And ignite your bones
And I will try to fix you

Tanpa Bintang - Anang ft. Aurel

Sepi ini tak kan membunuh kita
Karna kita selalu bersama
Bersamanya kita harus bahagia
Melawan semua aral yang ada bersama

reff:
Aku dan kamu selalu bersama
Habiskan malam walau tanpa bintang
Aku dan kamu saling berpelukan
Membunuh malam hingga pagi menjelang
Bersama selamanya

repeat *
repeat reff

Cinta aku seluas samudera
Sayang aku tak akan pudar
Cinta aku, aku dan kamu selamanya Aku dan kamu selalu bersama
Habiskan malam walau tanpa bintang

Aku dan kamu saling berpelukan
Membunuh malam hingga pagi menjelang Aku dan kamu selalu bersama
Habiskan malam walau tanpa bintang

Aku dan kamu saling berpelukan
Membunuh malam hingga pagi menjelang
Berdua selamanya, selamanya

april wish.

okeh, by reading back the text msg frm abng's, It make my tears fall, again. Yes, whatever he said is true. Whatever i wanted and asked frm God, is answered. Maybe not that clear, but i realized that He sent my brother to change my life and not just me. My parents and also my family and yet, many others families. Not just to have a bright life, but to make us one family back happily like what we've deserved.

He did mentioned about goals. But, yes. Eventho, i have no guts to reply you bng, i do set up my goals sudah. I do realized what mistakes i made, i even do realized what i needs to change. I do wanna change, im desperate to change my life so baad. I do wanna prove that me and my family deserve a great lifes.

But somehow, in all eyes, it seems im not that moving nor trying my best. I do, in silently. I do when i ever had the chance. I never miss to take the chance and i always since i could. Maybe not in a right or good ways, but i do realized that i also had a dreams. I do have my own dreams. I cant stop dreaming. But yet, i realized it is not that big enough yet to wash away my problems. Problems ? Yes.. My only problems is me. Im the problems of myself. I who need to change first.

Since major did asked me to keep on looking and searching for my dreams, i did pray to God everyday just to show me what way should i go, and which path should i follow. Cause, i always tought that following my family's way and successful people wouldnt enough for me. I can feels that i miss something. I always miss something. Which i realized frm all the seminars and funcitions that i attended, is only one thing. Its God. Im willing to give myself to the first priorities in life, which is God. Cause i believe that every bad and good, comes frm our Creator. As abng always said, "Just believe in miracles."

now i know. How i, as a mooslem needs to follow what to do's and the dont's. And here as well, i wanna thank God, that my girlfriend always there for me to force me not to give up. How shes not giving up just to sent to me her short vid clip on every msn she'd tried. In many ways i got inspired lately by the Law of Attraction. I need to face what i need to fix.

And my goals for this month is..
1. Core to God.
2. Core to my Family.
3. Extremely core to my Business.

And ofcourse, being a pacesetter and complete my winning 7. "777x7"

-end.