salam and morning blogger. Here i wanna share what ive been doing yesterday. Yesterday, i wokeup around 11ish and was in a rush cause i got date. Plus, my phone was dead. Unexpected date.. Wel, i should say a great one. Cause im having lunch with my baby yesterday. Was planned wanna meet my friend actually. Kn bgi CM as in book. Since she's a bookworm. But, last min cancelled.
Somehow, i picking up my love at school and we went to weststreet cafe for a lunch. Since she needs to be back in school at 1.30pm, i send her back to school before 1.30pm. Then i went back home and playing around with Alia's. I miss her so much, so yeah..
Then, once i done everything, i went out with daddy to beli some food. Yes, makanan. Lately, i easily getting hungry. My mum said, makan inda baca bismillah tu! But, hey.. Bismillah is always my opening prayer before i do and did something. Thats like a habit sudah tia. Plus, my mum just love to make jokes around when it comes to unimportant things and sekadar stuff ? Somehow, i love you what ever it takes mum. ;D
then, after that i went out again with my dad. Going to our shop. Plus my mouthspray abis jua sudah. Then, meeting both Jerry and Pindi. Shopping bah drng. Hee. And yeah, i had the chance to meet our guest speaker. Since he's going back that night, we decided to go airport to send him off. So i decided to follow them Jerry saja. Inda blik blik. Plus they need me to ajar how to use basic skin care. So, why not ?
Then we went to the hospital to pick up her little sister and send her back home. Then we endup at along's til malam. Then before going to the airport, we went to gadong cause pindi wanna beli shoes. Then picking up Muin, and went straight to the airport. And then i went home.
At home, i was dicussing with the parents about our business. Its great when i also learned alot frm the parents as well. But yet, we're fixing whats unright doings. Plus i get the chance to apply what i've read. And it really does helping myself to get to know my parents in more details. I wanna thank God for giving me chance to know my parents' personalities. Alhamdulillah..
Then my desire started to burn again when my mentor and also my lovely gorgeous brother came by and sharing some thinking that makes my spirit inside jumping around and a positive planned for my next goals. Im personally proud to have a brother and a great leader like him who never gets tired to help people til he see them succeed in his heart. He really does have a heart of success that no one can ever beat and bring him down. He really does inspired many people including me and his own families. On behalf of us all, frm the bottom of my heart, i would like to say thank you GOD and we always love and appreciate for your appearance all this time, bang. Thats you, Jozy Julaihi. ;'D
"Success is the only best revenge!" - Jozy Julaihi.
And because of that jua, i couldn't sleep and terus making and wrote down my goals and game plan that i consulted with him tadi. Wel, for sure my name will be listed for Als Sydney, 2012 with 3legs at 10. Thats my goal so far. Bah, i think til here tah dulu and have a nice day ya'll! Cheers, and salam. :)
Tuesday, 5 July 2011
Monday, 4 July 2011
Leadership Trainning.
salam. And hello blogger. Here i wanna share about the seminar that i attended to yesterday. It was awesome! Inspired! Learning and positive. Its about us being a leader to our lifes.
Yesterday, i wokeup at 9ish morning. Which i realized that i was late. But somehow, i managed to attend the challenge meeting at 11am at Rbrc Sport Complex, Brakas. I learned alot. Mostly about being a leader. It was a very great speaker who has sacrificed his own job just because he had the power of choice. Inda ramai yang tedapat cematu. Ada pun, a leader frm Leadership Seminar saja yang berhasil.
Anwy, theres alot of points that i wrote down that early afternoon. Points that i've learned frm the guess speaker. Mostly about being teachable and leading by an example. A leader must lead on. Humble and mau belajar all the time. I wish i could bring all my groups to attend that early challenge meeting. But, yeah.. There's another challenge meeting this coming august. And also a challenge sungkai. A leader need to be there. And thats my next goals. Bring 3 new fresh legs to join me being in challenge meeting and challenge sungkai. I believe in miracles.
Now is the right time to move on to the next level. I must double my efforts this time. And work smart. Why so ? Thats because of the training that i attended to yesterday.
Since next year the trip is going to Sydney, i dont wanna miss it this time. Going to Australia is my girlfriend's dream. Its a why not ? Plus, seeing the guess speaker's travelling videos make me wanna make my own videos instead. Plus, i saw Sydney in that video. That makes my desire's burning. Its time to make it happend this time, what ever it takes. Wanna make dreams come true, is to Wake Up!
So far, im learning alot and still wanna learn more about know things that i don't know. Alhamdulillah i force myself to pray and asking from Allah's willing these few days. Cause i believe that everything goods and bads are coming and given by Allah. Even the guess speaker did mentiond this, "do anything with prayers, and put it in our prayers." that line really motivated me alot. And also the 4 D's ;
Dreams,
Desire,
Determinations, &
Decision.
And i also learned from my own mentor, about the TLF;
Trust,
Listen, &
Follow.
And most important messege that i got yesterday is to trust ourself instead. That magic moment is frm my own mentor itself. I thank God for hearing my prayers, and giving me chance to learn something positive yesterday. Alhamdulillah..
Since i promise to wake them up for subuh prayer and after subuh prayer, i think i should go now. Til here then blogger. Have a great rainny morning to Brunei and success always. Cheers! ;D and salam.
Yesterday, i wokeup at 9ish morning. Which i realized that i was late. But somehow, i managed to attend the challenge meeting at 11am at Rbrc Sport Complex, Brakas. I learned alot. Mostly about being a leader. It was a very great speaker who has sacrificed his own job just because he had the power of choice. Inda ramai yang tedapat cematu. Ada pun, a leader frm Leadership Seminar saja yang berhasil.
Anwy, theres alot of points that i wrote down that early afternoon. Points that i've learned frm the guess speaker. Mostly about being teachable and leading by an example. A leader must lead on. Humble and mau belajar all the time. I wish i could bring all my groups to attend that early challenge meeting. But, yeah.. There's another challenge meeting this coming august. And also a challenge sungkai. A leader need to be there. And thats my next goals. Bring 3 new fresh legs to join me being in challenge meeting and challenge sungkai. I believe in miracles.
Now is the right time to move on to the next level. I must double my efforts this time. And work smart. Why so ? Thats because of the training that i attended to yesterday.
Since next year the trip is going to Sydney, i dont wanna miss it this time. Going to Australia is my girlfriend's dream. Its a why not ? Plus, seeing the guess speaker's travelling videos make me wanna make my own videos instead. Plus, i saw Sydney in that video. That makes my desire's burning. Its time to make it happend this time, what ever it takes. Wanna make dreams come true, is to Wake Up!
So far, im learning alot and still wanna learn more about know things that i don't know. Alhamdulillah i force myself to pray and asking from Allah's willing these few days. Cause i believe that everything goods and bads are coming and given by Allah. Even the guess speaker did mentiond this, "do anything with prayers, and put it in our prayers." that line really motivated me alot. And also the 4 D's ;
Dreams,
Desire,
Determinations, &
Decision.
And i also learned from my own mentor, about the TLF;
Trust,
Listen, &
Follow.
And most important messege that i got yesterday is to trust ourself instead. That magic moment is frm my own mentor itself. I thank God for hearing my prayers, and giving me chance to learn something positive yesterday. Alhamdulillah..
Since i promise to wake them up for subuh prayer and after subuh prayer, i think i should go now. Til here then blogger. Have a great rainny morning to Brunei and success always. Cheers! ;D and salam.
Saturday, 2 July 2011
How to keep a disagreement from becoming an argument.
Welcome the disagreement. Remember the slogan, "When two partners always agree, one of them is not necessary." If there is some point you haven't thought about, be thankful if it is brought to your attention. Perhaps this disagreement is your opportunity to be corrected before you make a serious mistake.
Distrust your first instinctive impression. Our first natural reaction in a disagreeable situation is to be defensive. Be careful. Keep calm and watch out for your first reaction. It may be you at your worst, not your best.
Control your temper. Remember, you can measure the size of a person by what makes him or her angry.
Listen first. Give your opponents a chance to talk. Let them finish. Do not resist, defend or debate. This only raises barriers. Try to build bridges of understanding. Don't build higher barriers of misunderstanding.
Look for areas of agreement. When you have heard your opponents out, dwell first on the points and areas on which you agree.
Be honest. Look for areas where you can admit error and say so. Apologize for your mistakes. It will help disarm your opponents and reduce defensiveness.
Promise to think over your opponents' ideas and study them carefully. And mean it. Your opponents may be right. It is a lot easier at this stage to agree to think about their points than to move rapidly ahead and find yourself in a position where your opponents can say: "We tried to tell you, but you wouldn't listen."
Thank your opponents sincerely for their interest. Anyone who takes the time to disagree with you is interested in the same things you are. Think of them as people who really want to help you, and you may turn your opponents into friends.
Postpone action to give both sides time to think through the problem. Suggest that a new meeting be held later that day or the next day, when all the facts may be brought to bear. In preparation for this meeting, ask yourself some hard questions:
-Could my opponents be right ? Partly right ? Is there truth or merit in their position or argument ? Is my reaction one that will relieve the problem, or will it just relieve any frustration ? Will my reaction drive my opponents further away or draw them closer to me ? Will my reaction elevate the estimation good people have of me ? Will i win or lose ? What price will i have to pay if I win ? If I am quiet about it, will the disagreement blow over ? Is this difficult situation an opportunity for me ?
Opera tenor Jan Peerce, after he was married nearly fifty years, once said: "My wife and I made a pact a long time ago, and we've kept it no matter how angry we've grown with each other. When one yells, the other should listen, because when two people yell, there is no communication, just noise and bad vibrations."
Distrust your first instinctive impression. Our first natural reaction in a disagreeable situation is to be defensive. Be careful. Keep calm and watch out for your first reaction. It may be you at your worst, not your best.
Control your temper. Remember, you can measure the size of a person by what makes him or her angry.
Listen first. Give your opponents a chance to talk. Let them finish. Do not resist, defend or debate. This only raises barriers. Try to build bridges of understanding. Don't build higher barriers of misunderstanding.
Look for areas of agreement. When you have heard your opponents out, dwell first on the points and areas on which you agree.
Be honest. Look for areas where you can admit error and say so. Apologize for your mistakes. It will help disarm your opponents and reduce defensiveness.
Promise to think over your opponents' ideas and study them carefully. And mean it. Your opponents may be right. It is a lot easier at this stage to agree to think about their points than to move rapidly ahead and find yourself in a position where your opponents can say: "We tried to tell you, but you wouldn't listen."
Thank your opponents sincerely for their interest. Anyone who takes the time to disagree with you is interested in the same things you are. Think of them as people who really want to help you, and you may turn your opponents into friends.
Postpone action to give both sides time to think through the problem. Suggest that a new meeting be held later that day or the next day, when all the facts may be brought to bear. In preparation for this meeting, ask yourself some hard questions:
-Could my opponents be right ? Partly right ? Is there truth or merit in their position or argument ? Is my reaction one that will relieve the problem, or will it just relieve any frustration ? Will my reaction drive my opponents further away or draw them closer to me ? Will my reaction elevate the estimation good people have of me ? Will i win or lose ? What price will i have to pay if I win ? If I am quiet about it, will the disagreement blow over ? Is this difficult situation an opportunity for me ?
Opera tenor Jan Peerce, after he was married nearly fifty years, once said: "My wife and I made a pact a long time ago, and we've kept it no matter how angry we've grown with each other. When one yells, the other should listen, because when two people yell, there is no communication, just noise and bad vibrations."
Welcome the disagreement. Remember the slogan, "When two partners always agree, one of them is not necessary." If there is some point you haven't thought about, be thankful if it is brought to your attention. Perhaps this disagreement is your opportunity to be corrected before you make a serious mistake.
Distrust your first instinctive impression. Our first natural reaction in a disagreeable situation is to be defensive. Be careful. Keep calm and watch out for your first reaction. It may be you at your worst, not your best.
Control your temper. Remember, you can measure the size of a person by what makes him or her angry.
Listen first. Give your opponents a chance to talk. Let them finish. Do not resist, defend or debate. This only raises barriers. Try to build bridges of understanding. Don't build higher barriers of misunderstanding.
Look for areas of agreement. When you have heard your opponents out, dwell first on the points and areas on which you agree.
Be honest. Look for areas where you can admit error and say so. Apologize for your mistakes. It will help disarm your opponents and reduce defensiveness.
Promise to think over your opponents' ideas and study them carefully. And mean it. Your opponents may be right. It is a lot easier at this stage to agree to think about their points than to move rapidly ahead and find yourself in a position where your opponents can say: "We tried to tell you, but you wouldn't listen."
Thank your opponents sincerely for their interest. Anyone who takes the time to disagree with you is interested in the same things you are. Think of them as people who really want to help you, and you may turn your opponents into friends.
Postpone action to give both sides time to think through the problem. Suggest that a new meeting be held later that day or the next day, when all the facts may be brought to bear. In preparation for this meeting, ask yourself some hard questions:
-Could my opponents be right ? Partly right ? Is there truth or merit in their position or argument ? Is my reaction one that will relieve the problem, or will it just relieve any frustration ? Will my reaction drive my opponents further away or draw them closer to me ? Will my reaction elevate the estimation good people have of me ? Will i win or lose ? What price will i have to pay if I win ? If I am quiet about it, will the disagreement blow over ? Is this difficult situation an opportunity for me ?
Opera tenor Jan Peerce, after he was married nearly fifty years, once said: "My wife and I made a pact a long time ago, and we've kept it no matter how angry we've grown with each other. When one yells, the other should listen, because when two people yell, there is no communication, just noise and bad vibrations."
Distrust your first instinctive impression. Our first natural reaction in a disagreeable situation is to be defensive. Be careful. Keep calm and watch out for your first reaction. It may be you at your worst, not your best.
Control your temper. Remember, you can measure the size of a person by what makes him or her angry.
Listen first. Give your opponents a chance to talk. Let them finish. Do not resist, defend or debate. This only raises barriers. Try to build bridges of understanding. Don't build higher barriers of misunderstanding.
Look for areas of agreement. When you have heard your opponents out, dwell first on the points and areas on which you agree.
Be honest. Look for areas where you can admit error and say so. Apologize for your mistakes. It will help disarm your opponents and reduce defensiveness.
Promise to think over your opponents' ideas and study them carefully. And mean it. Your opponents may be right. It is a lot easier at this stage to agree to think about their points than to move rapidly ahead and find yourself in a position where your opponents can say: "We tried to tell you, but you wouldn't listen."
Thank your opponents sincerely for their interest. Anyone who takes the time to disagree with you is interested in the same things you are. Think of them as people who really want to help you, and you may turn your opponents into friends.
Postpone action to give both sides time to think through the problem. Suggest that a new meeting be held later that day or the next day, when all the facts may be brought to bear. In preparation for this meeting, ask yourself some hard questions:
-Could my opponents be right ? Partly right ? Is there truth or merit in their position or argument ? Is my reaction one that will relieve the problem, or will it just relieve any frustration ? Will my reaction drive my opponents further away or draw them closer to me ? Will my reaction elevate the estimation good people have of me ? Will i win or lose ? What price will i have to pay if I win ? If I am quiet about it, will the disagreement blow over ? Is this difficult situation an opportunity for me ?
Opera tenor Jan Peerce, after he was married nearly fifty years, once said: "My wife and I made a pact a long time ago, and we've kept it no matter how angry we've grown with each other. When one yells, the other should listen, because when two people yell, there is no communication, just noise and bad vibrations."
Friday, 1 July 2011
In a Nutshell.
SIX WAYS TO MAKE PEOPLE LIKE YOU.
Principle 1 - Become genuinely interested in other people.
Principle 2 - Smile.
Principle 3 - Remember that a person's name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language.
Principle 4 - Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.
Principle 5 - Talk in terms of the other person's interests.
Principle 6 - Make the other person feel important and do it sincerely.
Principle 1 - Become genuinely interested in other people.
Principle 2 - Smile.
Principle 3 - Remember that a person's name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language.
Principle 4 - Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.
Principle 5 - Talk in terms of the other person's interests.
Principle 6 - Make the other person feel important and do it sincerely.
Sunday, 19 June 2011
inspired.
last night, we had a movie session and it only qualified to some ibo's. And for those who qualified, congrates to you guys. You guys are really inspired me for the challenge movie session. Well done!
The movie was great. Really inspired some of us in that room. Somehow, it was all about believe system. Believe to what? Its believe to our God. I wont gonna share how great was that movie here, but you guys can watch it yourself. A movie called fire proof. I dont know if im right with the spelling, but yet the story was awesome!
And today, we leaders had our challenge meeting where we learn and studied how to bigger the profits. But yet, even rich people couldn't enter that meeting unless, the people who wanna be rich and doing their works who qualified the most to enter that challenge meeting. Which, alhamdulillah that i learned alot today. And i thank God for again giving of chance to learned and knowing something that i should know.
A little sharing here, what i've learned today is mostly about being a leader still need to learn more and more. Being green all the time. Still need to learn much more. Ownership and responsibilities really highlight in this topic.
And i also learned about moving on. What happened is already happened. We cannot change it. But what we can change is, our future with making our decision now. Manage time and using time wisely than wildly. Thats when i saw my comfort zone. I really need to get out from it before it becomes worst. It really motivated my mind from thinking rubbish, or negative force. Alhamdulillah, with the help of writing goal on my twitter, i do get something that i called 'ilmu'.
See, when we do really meant to learn, we will learned something unexpected. Yang penting pasang niat yang betul. And believe in it. Believe you can succeed, and you will. All in the magic of thinking big.
P.s: i rather read something and get something. Instead of thinking nothing and get nothing.
The movie was great. Really inspired some of us in that room. Somehow, it was all about believe system. Believe to what? Its believe to our God. I wont gonna share how great was that movie here, but you guys can watch it yourself. A movie called fire proof. I dont know if im right with the spelling, but yet the story was awesome!
And today, we leaders had our challenge meeting where we learn and studied how to bigger the profits. But yet, even rich people couldn't enter that meeting unless, the people who wanna be rich and doing their works who qualified the most to enter that challenge meeting. Which, alhamdulillah that i learned alot today. And i thank God for again giving of chance to learned and knowing something that i should know.
A little sharing here, what i've learned today is mostly about being a leader still need to learn more and more. Being green all the time. Still need to learn much more. Ownership and responsibilities really highlight in this topic.
And i also learned about moving on. What happened is already happened. We cannot change it. But what we can change is, our future with making our decision now. Manage time and using time wisely than wildly. Thats when i saw my comfort zone. I really need to get out from it before it becomes worst. It really motivated my mind from thinking rubbish, or negative force. Alhamdulillah, with the help of writing goal on my twitter, i do get something that i called 'ilmu'.
See, when we do really meant to learn, we will learned something unexpected. Yang penting pasang niat yang betul. And believe in it. Believe you can succeed, and you will. All in the magic of thinking big.
P.s: i rather read something and get something. Instead of thinking nothing and get nothing.
Saturday, 18 June 2011
morning up.
dear blogger. I know that im still wide awake. Too much thinking i guess. What about it ? Wel, life brings me. On everything. Include relationship. And i know thats suck. But, gotta be sabar no matter what. I believe in miracle. Thats what my brother always tought me. Every good and bad comes from God. Everyone knows that. But, some people dint learn whats the meaning of that quotes.
Every words theres a message hiden to us. I dint say that im 'suk tau' or 'setau tau' but, hey.. We've learnd that before way back in school times. The different is only cara penyampaian. Somehow, you people know better than i do. But everything is dengan izin Allah.
Wel, talking back about me. Im just a little messed up actually. With my goals, my target, my focus. I just, fuck the up. But, some cds does help me with some words from abang. As i say, every words has it own meaning or message. I thankful that to God for giving me chance to at least learned something about life.
Why messed up ? It all started with a smile and a stare which involved feelings thro the end. Talking about an end. Theres a word says, always finish thing til the end. Same goes to feeling where i think i can handle it by my own. Which i tried many times to against it. But i maybe not that strong enough to handle something like that. The feeling that you couldn't think or feel of anything ? Like, should i say lost ? Its blackout where you cant find any ways to go. And thats when we supposed minta bantuan Ilahi. Alhamdulillah, ayat penyelamat my mum always remind me to amalkan.
The worst part lagi, when we dint even realized for what we think we did is right, where some reason its wrong to the other. Theres where different feelings joining in and make it more worst. What feeling ? The guilt, blame, everything that will contains negative at the end. Negative force. And that one is never right.
Too much to handle. If i were before, that kind of situations makes me end up unsober. But, yeah.. Things have change. Alot.. Life goes on. Actually, what im trying to let it out here is, life is like a rolling tyre. Ups and downs, atu tantu sekali. Its just life. Want something different, then do something different. How sabar we face it and how sabar we fix it.
Forgive, forget and move on. Thats the summary of the above sharing. So since its morning, i would like to say good morning to all and have a great weekends. Cheers.
Every words theres a message hiden to us. I dint say that im 'suk tau' or 'setau tau' but, hey.. We've learnd that before way back in school times. The different is only cara penyampaian. Somehow, you people know better than i do. But everything is dengan izin Allah.
Wel, talking back about me. Im just a little messed up actually. With my goals, my target, my focus. I just, fuck the up. But, some cds does help me with some words from abang. As i say, every words has it own meaning or message. I thankful that to God for giving me chance to at least learned something about life.
Why messed up ? It all started with a smile and a stare which involved feelings thro the end. Talking about an end. Theres a word says, always finish thing til the end. Same goes to feeling where i think i can handle it by my own. Which i tried many times to against it. But i maybe not that strong enough to handle something like that. The feeling that you couldn't think or feel of anything ? Like, should i say lost ? Its blackout where you cant find any ways to go. And thats when we supposed minta bantuan Ilahi. Alhamdulillah, ayat penyelamat my mum always remind me to amalkan.
The worst part lagi, when we dint even realized for what we think we did is right, where some reason its wrong to the other. Theres where different feelings joining in and make it more worst. What feeling ? The guilt, blame, everything that will contains negative at the end. Negative force. And that one is never right.
Too much to handle. If i were before, that kind of situations makes me end up unsober. But, yeah.. Things have change. Alot.. Life goes on. Actually, what im trying to let it out here is, life is like a rolling tyre. Ups and downs, atu tantu sekali. Its just life. Want something different, then do something different. How sabar we face it and how sabar we fix it.
Forgive, forget and move on. Thats the summary of the above sharing. So since its morning, i would like to say good morning to all and have a great weekends. Cheers.
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