Everyday may be different but, everythings will remain the same. - part II

Assalamualaikum and goodmorning readers. Yes, thats true. What my baby just post there is all true. What shes trying to say there is.. Its between me and her. Me and my girlfriend. Me and my baby. I usually say its just the part of the deal. Or i should say dugaan.

Yes, between me and her alhamdulilah, we've reached to this point. Or i should say, half of the year we've been together. And theres alot of things happen in those days, and months. We even learned alot from our mistakes. And i even might say that ive learned myself how to live this life.

And yes.. What we've learned is that, things thats not wajib, why we must do ? While things that wajib, we abaiabaikn just like that ? Wel, i know and we all know that, no one is perfect in this world. But yet, youu can make yourself perfect when youu start to make the desicion that youu wanna change yourself before youu want people around youu to change.

Its just that, we all know that, we all wanna be the best for what we've did, for what we've done. Even in relations we made. Am i right ? Wel, to share abit here, me and my girlfriend, we always want to be the best for each other. But yet, it wont be something when we dont do the thing. Whats the thing is, pray to Allah.

Im not being sok alim here. I do alots mistakes as well, and maybe i dint deserve to say this. Yet, im sorry. But, its just that i wanna shared for what ive done and what ive learn. Mostly in relationship with my girlfriend. Yes, relationships always gonna be a very big issue to most people. I know.. Both me and my girlfriend pun cematu. Who doesnt right ? Unless, again i wanna say, unless, its a man-made as in robot. Crap ! But then, yeah..

Me and my baby, we always remain ourself to pray to Allah, just to protect our relations. We ask Allah to show us ways to be close to Him. Its true, its not that easy.. Why so ? Once youu ask frm Allah for happiness, He will gives youu sadness to go thro happiness. All the matter here is, we who ask for it. Are we being patien for it ? Adakah tni sabar menerimanya ? Are we ? Youu asked it, and youu feel it. Just that, any answers frm all prayers is given between your ears. Everything is in your mind. Our mind. How mental toughness we could handle. Everything is begin with the end in mind. :')

yes, its tough. I know.. Im feeling it all the time. We feel it all the time. But, yet.. Bersakit sakit dahulu, bernyaman nyaman kemudian. Or yang standardnya, bersusah susah dahulu, bersenang senang kemudian. Thats just true. When youu start to believe, then everything insha-Allah might be just easy.

And yes, here i wanna ngambil kesempatan juaa that, i really thanks Allah for opened my eyes to meet my girlfriend at first place. And now, alhamdulilah.. Ive learned alot frm her, and i appreciate to have her in my life. Alhamdulilah.. Syang, i thank youu for loving me. Where ever youu are, youu know i'll be missing youu. And yes, its says that what goes around, comes around. Remember, what ever youu do, youu must think first. Cause, we all know whats bad and whats good. If youu do bad things, youu will received bad things. If youu do good things, isha-Allah, not just good, but great things might comes to youu. Amin..

Enough said ? Wel, as a summary to this all post is.. Just, put Allah in youu, then nothing can stop your way.. Insha-Allah.. And let the 5 wajib prayers guide your everyday. And if youu want people to love youu, love Allah first. Insha-Allah, with God's willing.. Ada hikmah, di sebalik penggorbanan. Every failure, theres always a hidden treasure. Amin, amin, amin ya Allah. :)

i think, i stop here. Cause, its azan subuh already. So, guys wakeup and start to pray. And its never too late. Have a nice great tuesday and assalamualaikum. :)

p/s: i love youu wani, because of Allah.. :')

everyday may be different but, everythings will remain the same.

assalamualaikum and goodnight readers. well, its been a while i didnt post on my boyfriend's blog. so, heree i wanna share a bit berabis berabis..

lately, mcm mcm had happened between me and my boyfriend. i dont know why but, i believe its dugaan.. dont you think? curious what had happened? well, im not going to tell you pulang. because i will let my boyfriend cerita that part. *okay sayang? :')

arright. byebye.

p/s ; i love you, wiraa.

Selamat Hari Rayaa..

Hello, and assalamualaikum bloger. Wow.. First of all i wanna say selamat hari raya to all of youu readers. And also, im sorry for my any wrongdoings if there is. But, seriously.. This rayaa, i really dont have any mood to celebrate. I dont feel the exictement. Idkw.. Manaa indaa, rayaa last minute, my baby got exams, plus.. To much focus on my dream first to achieve it. So that, cann bernyaman nyaman kemudian.

But, anyhow.. Mau indaa mauu, still.. Its rayaa. Had to braya to relatives and all. Yada, yada, yadaa.. And so, here i would like to share my rayaa this year.. :) maybe, someone conected with this sharing.. Hee.

It all started masa malam rayaa, which is, everyone in the house tot, and confidently pkir raya's gonna be on saturday. Cause, come on.. Its raining juaa during that time. So, yeahh.. I was on my way to pick up my baby that time, and yeahh, she told me that, its gonna be rayaa. But, i was like.. Err.. Okehh ? *with no excitement langsung. So, we went out.. Planned, kn shopping with kaka, mummy, and fiffy. But then, since its rayaa, mummy indaa jdi tiaa, with reason kn manyap rumah. So, yeahh.. Everything planned, kecundang tiaa.. But, its alright. Next rayaa, insha-Allah, kalau umur panjang, its gonna be a great rayaa. ;D

so, when out with my baby, and beli some stuffs and yeah.. Since malam rayaa, indaa kn bejaur sajaa right ? So, by 10 i send my baby home. And im going straight back home. Di rumah, mendgnkn manyap rumah apaa. Living room, and everything laa. Termasuk my ride pun i cuci-ed. But, since adaa prospect menhantar diri arh si wiraa, come on.. STP jawapannya. Rasaa untk kn besemangat. Hee. And so, i was up til pagi, and around 7ish to 8 kli, i was planning kn sembahyang hari raya, which.. Melimpang pnya pasal, tetdur waa kuu jdinyaa. And bgnnya pun pkul 1 ? 2 ? And yeahh.. I missed jumaat prayer. ;( but, khutbah, alhamdulilah i sempat dngr di tv. And yeah, my first rayaa, half of the day is sleeeeping kelelahan. Hahah. Yeahh, right.. Yaa juaa taun taun cematuu. Nyehs..

Then, bgn.. The cousins adaa dtg kerumah tiaa apaa. Menyoto kmi. Since the manu is soto. But, i am so cant wait for mummy's laksaa ! ;9 *sesiapun.. Then, yeahh.. Since, my relatives is our neighbor juaa. So, me mummy and daddy brayaa tiaa. To my tua's and my iring's houses. And seriously.. I ate alot ! Hahah. Different kinds of food masuk my tummy on my first rayaa. Seriously.. Still.. I wanna get fat ! *sayangggggg ! Feeeeeeeed me ! ;D

then, after that.. We went to graveyard. Melawat mulah ninigirl. And i cried. I've been thinking about her juaa masaa kn rayaa atuu. Again, Al-Fatihah saja i cann sedekah. :') *i miss youu, ninigirl, always in my heart.*

then, i went back home and yeahh.. Since adaa open house di bunut, we went there tiaa. Was in one car with abng and fiffy. We went to major's place. And yeahh, since theres rendang, i ate again. Hahah. Nyamann.. ;9 then, after dri sanaa, we went back home to ambil niniboy and terus brayaa ke rumah our tangah's. And it was raining. And that day, zirah keep on asking me, "abng, npaa indaa bwaa kaka wani ?" *seriously syangg, thats make me speechless. Hee. Even, kajah was asking. Its funny when there were looking for my baby. *Next time, first rayaa, we should brayaa together gether tiaa. Hee. :)

after dari rimbaa, we went to our uncle's place. Somewhere in kota batuu. And yeahh.. Since its raining, tired, kekanyangan.. In my mind is only my bed and my baby. ;D then, sampai rumah, i was chitchat with my baby. Cause, the next day, im gonna brayaa with my baby's family. So, yeahh.. Plan plan segalaa. Which is, i got that in book. Says that, we should planned for what we gonna do tomorrow. Hee. And we planned tiaa and since im gonna puasaa juaa, i was just waiting for my sahur. Cause, i know.. Once i sleep, confirmed indaa tbgn tiaa. And alhamdulilah, i was besahur tiaa. :) and sampai, sanggup lgi jalan beli nasi katok rasaa kn mauu kanyang atuu. And seriously, my first day of rayaa, i ate alot. Start frm makan soto dirumah, then sweatandsour fish dirumah my tua's, then makan me kari nyaman arah my iring's, then makan rendang arh major's, then nasi bryani arh tangah's, then blik kerumah, having sahur for soto and nasi katok. And guess what ? The next day, i wokeup late ! ;s

and sampai, sikit lgi kn indaa jdi braya with my baby and the family baa. Since, their heading to lumut. So, yeahh.. I just catching up dari blakang tiaa. And alhamdulilah, few minutes, sampai first house yang dituju. Hee. Then, braya with my baby's family tiaa. ;D frm lumut to bandar. I had funn. Eventho i was fasting. Hee. After with my baby's family, i bring her braya with my family tiaa lgi. Hee. Photos uploaded some di facebook. How i wish, i could upload here some. Hee. Seriously, i had funn today. Thanks to Allah for melancarkn perjalanan kmi and thanks to youu sayang for bringing me braya with your family. Really appreciate it. Hee. ;D i love youu so muchh ! ;D

and funny thing tdi braya atuu, akuu punn kenaa bgi ampau tiaa. Aiyaa.. Mun my baby ikut sampai last house tu, i believe all my ampau, i give it to youu tiaa. Eventho, yaa pun kenaa bgi. Hee. And now, im missing my baby tiaa. :') wel, sampai sini th sjaa my post then. Goodmorning and have a nice raya and again, selamat hari rayaa guys. Have fun and dont forget to minta maaf. Kemaafan adalah kedamaian. Di hari raya, hari kemenangan. We are pemenang ! ;D hee. Cheers and assalamualaikum all. ;D

p/s ; i love youu, hati. :)

Use goals to help you grow..

THIRTY-DAY IMPROVEMENT GUIDE
Between now and ____ i will

A. Break these habits: (suggestions)

1. Putting off things.
2. Negative language.
3. Watching TV more than 60 minutes per day.
4. Gossip.

B. Acquire these habits: (suggestions)

1. A rigid morning examination of my appearance.
2. Plan each day's work the night before.
3. Compliment people at every possible opportunity.

C. Increase my value to my employer in these ways: (suggestions)

1. Do a better job of developing my subordinates.
2. Learn more about my company, what it does, and the customers it serves.
3. Make three specific suggestions to help my company become more efficient.

D. Increase my value to my home in these ways: (suggestions)

1. Show more appreciation for the little things my wife does that i've been taking for granted.
2. Once each week, do something special with my whole family.
3. Give one hour each day of my undivided attention to my family.

E. Sharpen my mind in these ways: (suggestions)

1. Invest two hours each week in reading professional magazines in my field.
2. Read one self-help book.
3. Make four new friends.
4. Spend 30 minutes daily in quiet, undisturbed thinking.

Create your first thirty-day improvement guide right now.

USE GOALS TO HELP YOU GROW

Here are two steps that will help:

First, visualize your future in terms of three departments: work, home, and social. Dividing your life this way keeps you from becoming confused, prevents conflicts, helps you look at the whole picture.

Second, demand of yourself clear, precise answers to these questions: What do i want to accomplish with my life ? What do i want to be ? And what does it take to satisfy me ?

Use the planning guide below to help.

AN IMAGE OF ME, 10 YEARS FROM NOW:
10 YEARS' PLANNING GUIDE

A. Work Department: 10 years from now:
1. What income level do i want to attain ?
2. What level of responsibility do i seek ?
3. How much authority do i want to command ?
4. What prestige do i expect to gain from my work ?

B. Home Department: 10 years from now:
1. What kind of standard of living do i want to provide for my family and myself ?
2. What kind of house do i want to live in ?
3. What kind of vacations do i want to take ?
4. What financial support do i want to give my children in their early adult years ?

C. Social Department: 10 years from now:
1. What kinds of friends do i want to have ?
2. What social groups do i want to join ?
3. What community leadership positions would i like to hold ?
4. What worthwhile causes do i want to champion ?

P/s: "Before you start out, know where you want to go."

IN QUICK REVIEW

The difference between success and failure is found in one's attitudes toward setbacks, handicaps, discouragements, and other disappointing situations.

Five guideposts to help you turn defeat into victory are:

1. Study setbacks to pave your way to success. When you lose, learn, and then go on to win next time.

2. Have the courage to be your own constructive critic. Seek out your faults and weaknesses and then correct them. This makes you a professional.

3. Stop blaming luck. Research each setback. Find out what whent wrong. Remember, blaming luck never got anyone where he wanted to go.

4. Blend persistence with experimentation. Stay with your goal but don't beat your head against a stone wall. Try new approaches. Experiment.

5. Remember, there is a good side in every situation. Find it. See the good side and whip discouragement.

Hello to a new month, and hello to a better life. ;D

Assalamualaikum, and hello bloger. As we all know, today is the first day of september. So, welcome september and goodbye august. And seriously, august had bunch of memories not to forget. Its alot. Why ? Cause, during that month, where i learned alot frm my past life. What is good and what is bad. Where i should and where i shouldnt. For an example, pray to God. :')

yes, pray to God. We all muslim knows that, pray is wajib dikerjakan everyday. But then, we lalai, tni lupakn, we dint do prays. But, perkara yang indaa wajib, tni buat.. How i know, cause i was cematuu juaa. Things yang tani tauu salah, atuu tplng some of us ramai membuat. Mcm example here, minum minum, maksiat, aurat every where for the girls, melawan indung, kn melepak, kn beparty, tephone sex phone sex laa, sexchat laa, apaa laa, ituu laa, ini laa.. But, sedangkn we all know that, atuu indaa bepahala but, its bedusa instead. Mengapaa ? Cause, i was cematu juaa before. Wel, kehidupan masaa ani kn ? Or should i say trand terkini laa tuu ? So that org meliat, cool laa tuu ? But, thats the thing.. We created a sin. Dosaa. ;s nauzubilah..

And yeah, seriously.. People had full of influence. Your friends, families, people youu know are watching youu. They easily influence by youu. So, if youu are bad, then people around youu will be bad as well. But, when your good, insha-Allah, peoples around youu might be good as well. So, as a muslim, i confess here, i do alot of mistakes. No one is born perfect. I know.. People do had alot of mistakes. But, frm our mistakes we learned how to handle lifes. But, some of us, tauu sudahh mistakes, and still doing it the same thing juaaa. Atuu bukan mistakes lgi tuu jdinyaa. Thats stupidity.. Come on, we're human being. God gives us brain to think. Youu knew it either its bad or good. Youu control your life. We ourselves who control our own life. Not your dad, your bos, either your friends. Again, how i know all this, cause i was there before. I know how youu feel, i felt the same way too.. But, what ive found, alhamdulilah.. With the help of books that ive read, it teached me alot. How our life, we the one who control it. Not the others. :')

maybe some of youu related to this post. Wel, im sorry if youu do. Its just that, im here sharing what ive been going through, and if i could turn back time, i might doing it frm the start. But, since i know i couldnt, why not i do something with it. Create a better life. And i promise, i will be a better person insha-Allah. Since its the new month, and a new fiscal year to some of us, here i wanna say, "happy new year, guys." may Allah memberkati kita semuaa. And semogaa impian kitani tercapai. Amin.. :')

so, yeahh.. Since its still di bulan yang mulia ani, why not ? Sucikn diri with air wuduk, and sama sama tani pray to God and syukuri, apaa yang telah Tuhan berikn kepadaa kita semuaa. Insha-Allah, apaa yang kitani inginkn akan tercapai. And theres some words i wanna share here, "when theres a will, theres always a way," and "when youu put God in youu, nothing can stop your journey." why ? Cause, success is a journey. :') together we sujud and pray to God for our better belonging. Insha-Allah.. So, alhamdulilah, sampai sini sjaa my post. If adaa yang terasa, here i wanna say im sorry, this is just my sharing. So, yeahh.. Selamat berpuasa all. And assalamualaikum, cheers. ;D