some sharing.

salam all and good evening. Nothing much to share here. I just feel like blogging. Its been awhile i didn't post my daily routines here. So, let me just share a little..

So far, my routines lately, is amazing. Why so ? Cause, now Alhamdulillah, i fixed my time management thro my praying daily routine. Cause, honestly speaking, what i do and what i did before, i seriously felt empty. But, Alhamdulillah, i started my prayers routines back. Plus, ramadhan's is coming soon. So, its a why not to start it now ?

And yes, my life, i learn and keep on learning how to control and to fix it back whats wrong. Eventho, im doing it, one step ahead, slowly, but atleast i tried to left out things that not helping me to my journey to successful life. I can see my future's getting bright and bright eversince i went to LS to LS. I can see my bright future's family there. Its getting clear and clear.

Since my love langguage is quality time, so i do wanna have a quality time with the one i love. Families, wife, childrens, babies, and being around the world with the both families, umrah to make it ballance and so on.

I love mother nature. I want to see God's creations all over the place. I just wanna see my kids grow and having quality times with them. Sembahyang berjemaah satu keluarga. Seriously, i miss that the most. Cause, we usually did that berjemaah thingy before when i was 7 or 8 years old ? So, yeah.. Its a why not to make it happen again. Thats my desire.. To create back the smile on my family's face.

But i believe, all of this wont happen if we dint ask it frm Him. And i believe that all good and bad comes frm Him. I also believe that only Him who knows everything that seen and unseen. I believe in miracles. Somehow, i thank God for giving me the chance to live and to learn something that i dont know. I thanks Allah for His willing towards me all this years. Alhamdulillah..

I guess, i'll end it here then.. Will share with you guys hows life is wonderful.. So, til here then. Have a nice sleep and enjoy the days. Cheers.. :)

In a Nutshell.

WIN PEOPLE TO YOUR WAY OF THINKING.

Principle 1 - The only way to get the best of an argument is to avoid it.

Principle 2 - Show respect for the other person's opinions. Never say, "You're wrong."

Principle 3 - If you are wrong, admit it quickly and emphatically.

Principle 4 - Being in a friendly way.

Principle 5 - Get the other person saying "yes, yes" immediately.

Principle 6 - Let the other person do a great deal of the talking.

Principle 7 - Let the other person feel that the idea is his or hers.

Principle 8 - Try honestly to see things from the other person's point of view.

Principle 9 - Be sympathetic with the other person's ideas and desires.

Principle 10 - Appeal to the nobler motives.

Principle 11 - Dramatize your ideas.

Principle 12 - Throw down a challenge.

hello, assalamualaikum. Iwani is here again.. as I said, I'm gonna continue the other two types of dreamers that I learned in "Business School." so I'm just gonna straight to the point.

(4) those who dream big dreams, but with no plan on how to go about achieving them, so they end up nothing ; they are those who want to achieve their dreams on their own but do not have a definite plan. they just wait for the so called “break” to come.

(5) those who dream big, achieve those dream and go on to dream even bigger dreams ; they are those who never stop dreaming because they know that their dreams can be achieved no matter how big they are.

so, what types are you? to be honest lah ah, I'm one of those who wait "break" to come.. I always wanted to be the fifth dreamer.. which I know, who don't, right? so, since it's not too late, I'll try my hardest to be in the fifth dreamer.. ;D InsyaAllah, there's no such thing is too late if you haven't try it yet.

adios readers. soon I'm going to post about day I'm gone through this few days back.. salam.

dreamer.dreamer.

hi everyone. iwani's here.. I actually wanna post something to do with dreamer last few days but then, my days went so busy plus tiring? so I kinda forgot.. and yeah, now I feel like blogging..

I just wanna share with you guys what I learned about dreamer from what Robert Kiyosaki wrote on his book, which is "Business School." I learned alot actually from that book about quadrants and such.. but since my baby wanted me to post about this dreamer thingy, so here some about the dreamer..

from what Robert wrote on his book, he says that there's five types of dreamer.. what is it??

(1) those who dream in the past ; a person who dreams in the past is a person whose life is over. they may not dead, but they are no longer truly alive and the only way they can come back to life is to rekindle a dream.

(2) those who dream only small dreams ; I tell you guys, this is the dangerous dreamer. why? some people limit themselves to dreaming only small dreams, because that's the only way they can feel confident they can achieve them. the ironic thing is that, while they know they could achieve their small dreams, they often never do! why not?? I recommend you to seek them by your own.. or buy the book? it's a why not, right? :)

(3) those who achieve a dream, and then live bored ; why they gets bored? simple, it is because they found something is missing in their life. they need new adventures!

so what do you think so far? which dreamer are you? I have two more types of dreamer which I'm gonna post it besok, InsyaAllah. :D hope you readers get something on this post eventho it's just a short post. alright, adios.

salam.

thinking widely positive.

salam and morning blogger. Here i wanna share what ive been doing yesterday. Yesterday, i wokeup around 11ish and was in a rush cause i got date. Plus, my phone was dead. Unexpected date.. Wel, i should say a great one. Cause im having lunch with my baby yesterday. Was planned wanna meet my friend actually. Kn bgi CM as in book. Since she's a bookworm. But, last min cancelled.

Somehow, i picking up my love at school and we went to weststreet cafe for a lunch. Since she needs to be back in school at 1.30pm, i send her back to school before 1.30pm. Then i went back home and playing around with Alia's. I miss her so much, so yeah..

Then, once i done everything, i went out with daddy to beli some food. Yes, makanan. Lately, i easily getting hungry. My mum said, makan inda baca bismillah tu! But, hey.. Bismillah is always my opening prayer before i do and did something. Thats like a habit sudah tia. Plus, my mum just love to make jokes around when it comes to unimportant things and sekadar stuff ? Somehow, i love you what ever it takes mum. ;D

then, after that i went out again with my dad. Going to our shop. Plus my mouthspray abis jua sudah. Then, meeting both Jerry and Pindi. Shopping bah drng. Hee. And yeah, i had the chance to meet our guest speaker. Since he's going back that night, we decided to go airport to send him off. So i decided to follow them Jerry saja. Inda blik blik. Plus they need me to ajar how to use basic skin care. So, why not ?

Then we went to the hospital to pick up her little sister and send her back home. Then we endup at along's til malam. Then before going to the airport, we went to gadong cause pindi wanna beli shoes. Then picking up Muin, and went straight to the airport. And then i went home.

At home, i was dicussing with the parents about our business. Its great when i also learned alot frm the parents as well. But yet, we're fixing whats unright doings. Plus i get the chance to apply what i've read. And it really does helping myself to get to know my parents in more details. I wanna thank God for giving me chance to know my parents' personalities. Alhamdulillah..

Then my desire started to burn again when my mentor and also my lovely gorgeous brother came by and sharing some thinking that makes my spirit inside jumping around and a positive planned for my next goals. Im personally proud to have a brother and a great leader like him who never gets tired to help people til he see them succeed in his heart. He really does have a heart of success that no one can ever beat and bring him down. He really does inspired many people including me and his own families. On behalf of us all, frm the bottom of my heart, i would like to say thank you GOD and we always love and appreciate for your appearance all this time, bang. Thats you, Jozy Julaihi. ;'D

"Success is the only best revenge!" - Jozy Julaihi.

And because of that jua, i couldn't sleep and terus making and wrote down my goals and game plan that i consulted with him tadi. Wel, for sure my name will be listed for Als Sydney, 2012 with 3legs at 10. Thats my goal so far. Bah, i think til here tah dulu and have a nice day ya'll! Cheers, and salam. :)

Leadership Trainning.

salam. And hello blogger. Here i wanna share about the seminar that i attended to yesterday. It was awesome! Inspired! Learning and positive. Its about us being a leader to our lifes.

Yesterday, i wokeup at 9ish morning. Which i realized that i was late. But somehow, i managed to attend the challenge meeting at 11am at Rbrc Sport Complex, Brakas. I learned alot. Mostly about being a leader. It was a very great speaker who has sacrificed his own job just because he had the power of choice. Inda ramai yang tedapat cematu. Ada pun, a leader frm Leadership Seminar saja yang berhasil.

Anwy, theres alot of points that i wrote down that early afternoon. Points that i've learned frm the guess speaker. Mostly about being teachable and leading by an example. A leader must lead on. Humble and mau belajar all the time. I wish i could bring all my groups to attend that early challenge meeting. But, yeah.. There's another challenge meeting this coming august. And also a challenge sungkai. A leader need to be there. And thats my next goals. Bring 3 new fresh legs to join me being in challenge meeting and challenge sungkai. I believe in miracles.

Now is the right time to move on to the next level. I must double my efforts this time. And work smart. Why so ? Thats because of the training that i attended to yesterday.

Since next year the trip is going to Sydney, i dont wanna miss it this time. Going to Australia is my girlfriend's dream. Its a why not ? Plus, seeing the guess speaker's travelling videos make me wanna make my own videos instead. Plus, i saw Sydney in that video. That makes my desire's burning. Its time to make it happend this time, what ever it takes. Wanna make dreams come true, is to Wake Up!

So far, im learning alot and still wanna learn more about know things that i don't know. Alhamdulillah i force myself to pray and asking from Allah's willing these few days. Cause i believe that everything goods and bads are coming and given by Allah. Even the guess speaker did mentiond this, "do anything with prayers, and put it in our prayers." that line really motivated me alot. And also the 4 D's ;

Dreams,
Desire,
Determinations, &
Decision.

And i also learned from my own mentor, about the TLF;

Trust,
Listen, &
Follow.

And most important messege that i got yesterday is to trust ourself instead. That magic moment is frm my own mentor itself. I thank God for hearing my prayers, and giving me chance to learn something positive yesterday. Alhamdulillah..

Since i promise to wake them up for subuh prayer and after subuh prayer, i think i should go now. Til here then blogger. Have a great rainny morning to Brunei and success always. Cheers! ;D and salam.

How to keep a disagreement from becoming an argument.

Welcome the disagreement. Remember the slogan, "When two partners always agree, one of them is not necessary." If there is some point you haven't thought about, be thankful if it is brought to your attention. Perhaps this disagreement is your opportunity to be corrected before you make a serious mistake.

Distrust your first instinctive impression. Our first natural reaction in a disagreeable situation is to be defensive. Be careful. Keep calm and watch out for your first reaction. It may be you at your worst, not your best.

Control your temper. Remember, you can measure the size of a person by what makes him or her angry.

Listen first. Give your opponents a chance to talk. Let them finish. Do not resist, defend or debate. This only raises barriers. Try to build bridges of understanding. Don't build higher barriers of misunderstanding.

Look for areas of agreement. When you have heard your opponents out, dwell first on the points and areas on which you agree.

Be honest. Look for areas where you can admit error and say so. Apologize for your mistakes. It will help disarm your opponents and reduce defensiveness.

Promise to think over your opponents' ideas and study them carefully. And mean it. Your opponents may be right. It is a lot easier at this stage to agree to think about their points than to move rapidly ahead and find yourself in a position where your opponents can say: "We tried to tell you, but you wouldn't listen."

Thank your opponents sincerely for their interest. Anyone who takes the time to disagree with you is interested in the same things you are. Think of them as people who really want to help you, and you may turn your opponents into friends.

Postpone action to give both sides time to think through the problem. Suggest that a new meeting be held later that day or the next day, when all the facts may be brought to bear. In preparation for this meeting, ask yourself some hard questions:

-Could my opponents be right ? Partly right ? Is there truth or merit in their position or argument ? Is my reaction one that will relieve the problem, or will it just relieve any frustration ? Will my reaction drive my opponents further away or draw them closer to me ? Will my reaction elevate the estimation good people have of me ? Will i win or lose ? What price will i have to pay if I win ? If I am quiet about it, will the disagreement blow over ? Is this difficult situation an opportunity for me ?

Opera tenor Jan Peerce, after he was married nearly fifty years, once said: "My wife and I made a pact a long time ago, and we've kept it no matter how angry we've grown with each other. When one yells, the other should listen, because when two people yell, there is no communication, just noise and bad vibrations."

Welcome the disagreement. Remember the slogan, "When two partners always agree, one of them is not necessary." If there is some point you haven't thought about, be thankful if it is brought to your attention. Perhaps this disagreement is your opportunity to be corrected before you make a serious mistake.

Distrust your first instinctive impression. Our first natural reaction in a disagreeable situation is to be defensive. Be careful. Keep calm and watch out for your first reaction. It may be you at your worst, not your best.

Control your temper. Remember, you can measure the size of a person by what makes him or her angry.

Listen first. Give your opponents a chance to talk. Let them finish. Do not resist, defend or debate. This only raises barriers. Try to build bridges of understanding. Don't build higher barriers of misunderstanding.

Look for areas of agreement. When you have heard your opponents out, dwell first on the points and areas on which you agree.

Be honest. Look for areas where you can admit error and say so. Apologize for your mistakes. It will help disarm your opponents and reduce defensiveness.

Promise to think over your opponents' ideas and study them carefully. And mean it. Your opponents may be right. It is a lot easier at this stage to agree to think about their points than to move rapidly ahead and find yourself in a position where your opponents can say: "We tried to tell you, but you wouldn't listen."

Thank your opponents sincerely for their interest. Anyone who takes the time to disagree with you is interested in the same things you are. Think of them as people who really want to help you, and you may turn your opponents into friends.

Postpone action to give both sides time to think through the problem. Suggest that a new meeting be held later that day or the next day, when all the facts may be brought to bear. In preparation for this meeting, ask yourself some hard questions:

-Could my opponents be right ? Partly right ? Is there truth or merit in their position or argument ? Is my reaction one that will relieve the problem, or will it just relieve any frustration ? Will my reaction drive my opponents further away or draw them closer to me ? Will my reaction elevate the estimation good people have of me ? Will i win or lose ? What price will i have to pay if I win ? If I am quiet about it, will the disagreement blow over ? Is this difficult situation an opportunity for me ?

Opera tenor Jan Peerce, after he was married nearly fifty years, once said: "My wife and I made a pact a long time ago, and we've kept it no matter how angry we've grown with each other. When one yells, the other should listen, because when two people yell, there is no communication, just noise and bad vibrations."

In a Nutshell.

SIX WAYS TO MAKE PEOPLE LIKE YOU.

Principle 1 - Become genuinely interested in other people.

Principle 2 - Smile.

Principle 3 - Remember that a person's name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language.

Principle 4 - Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.

Principle 5 - Talk in terms of the other person's interests.

Principle 6 - Make the other person feel important and do it sincerely.